You wined her, dined her, and had taken her to places she has never been.  But, hold on, it's not a done deal,yet.  When you ger up in the morning after a great night, there are still a few yet winning moves that will make it a done deal.


1.  Don't get up just yet. 

Ok, so you have stuff to do, work to go to, and so does she.  And it doesn't mean that you should put your clothes on the moment you see streaks of sunlight beyond the curtains.  A Gerogia sex therapist claims that,"if you're quick enough to leave the next morning, a woman feels like you either regret what happened the night before or can't wait to get away from her".  This therapist said that the key is to spend even 5-10 minutes cuddling in bed with assurances that you care.

2.  Pull a move tha that will make her feel sexy but does not spell a quickie in the morning.

She isn't always going to be up for more action during the morning.  The author of The Complete Idiot's guide to Amazing Sex advised that taking a shower together is a discreet yet effective message that you want another round.  This has a two-way effect, she will feel that she has all your attention and that you love her minus the clothes.

3.  Seal your next date.

A woman still worries that once you've had the dessert, you won't see her anymore.  Instead of giving the normal, "I'll call you later", set another date.  A woman feels more vulnerable after having sex and needs reassurance that she is not a fling so, make her feel that she's not one.

If she is special to you, make her feel that she is. And even if she isn't the one. Be a gentleman and treat her with respect.  It takes two to tango, and don't make an ungraceful exit from the dance floor becausef she has two left feet.

So I was browsing on some stuff online and I found out that a big percentage of males aged from 30-50 are for a fact, not as sexually active as some may think. Yes, folks – long gone are the days when people accepted the fact that men think about sex every three seconds – if it is a fact at all.

As it turns out, not all men are after sex, after all and this is a result of a growing dilemma amongst men in that age range. Depression is also a said factor to this as a high percentage of men who are depressed and are counted in based on the studies, to just completely lose interest in sex. Most of these men are married by the way and aren’t even thinking of cheating.


40 percent of these men who seek the help of marriage counselors and professionals are still capable of making love but just don’t want to. While this may be an alarming fact, there  being working for long hours coupled up with stress, can be fixed. How long it may take to solve remains to be seen.